Archive for May, 2010

To know your own mind

Monday, May 17th, 2010

Half of us want to live the unexamined life, assimilating easily into the culture, the conventions and the perks of the time. And half don’t. We want to write our own marching orders, to look and ponder, to surmise and re-evaluate.

It’s not so easy, though, to be an original, to create a life of your own design, to parse, weight and scale where and how you can best contribute. Whether you’ve always had in mind this intention—and even see it as an obligation or, startled, realized that too much of your life “just happened,” there’s much to think about, plan for and do. (more…)

Creating a life of your own design

Monday, May 3rd, 2010

We see things as WE are, not as THEY are. This recognition is key to success with creating a life of our own design. Why? Because the ability to envision, evaluate, assess, project and correct, etc., is remarkably and extensively determined by our subjectivity. Let me tell you what I mean. (And please don’t be distracted by the detail in the next couple of paragraphs. The turning point is just sentences away!) (more…)